No.Regrets.Dating.
A card handed off at a Boston party
Sat · Back Bay

◍ Take them anywhere in the US · Est. 2026

Stop
playing
chicken.

Minimal swiping,
no apps,
real world first.

Build your card →

No.Regrets.Dating. is the bridge

between the meet-cute and the first date.

A calm, private space to actually get to know someone,

before you share a single private detail.

◍ How it works (from your perspective)

Five steps. Minimal swiping.

A card handed off at a Boston coffee shop
Tue · Beacon Hill
i
Meet.

You meet someone in person and feel a spark.

ii
Connect.

After you connect hand them your card.

iii
Scan.

They scan, answer some questions, and request to match.

iv
Match.

You review their profile and choose to approve or pass.

v
Chat.

Chat opens right away. Text, call on demand, or book a 15-min slot.

◍ The object

A card you'd keep.

Polaroid format. Heavy stock. One QR code, unique to you. Front says hello. Back does the rest.

Mayathoughtyou werecute.NO.REGRETS.DATING. ♡ BOSTON
NO.REGRETS.DATING.Be your ownmatchmaker.Maya, 28♡FUN FACTI make pasta from scratch on Sundays.QRno.regrets.dating.comSCAN ME

Drag to spin · double-tap to flip

See the card → $30 · pack of 30

◍ The feed

No.Regrets cards in the real world.

◍ Field notes

Real people, real rooms, no infinite scroll.

no.regrets.dating.

Scanning a card at the bar.
in the wild

Scanning a card at the bar.

◍ Safety brief

Every card carries a verified identity, every scan leaves a trace.

no.regrets.dating.

Scanned, mid-conversation.
in the wild

Scanned, mid-conversation.

◍ Etiquette

Hand it to them, smile, walk away. The card does the talking.

no.regrets.dating.

Card, back pocket, ready.
in the wild

Card, back pocket, ready.

← swipe →

◍ The cards

Thirty cards.
$1 or less a shot.

Pick a membership, your first 30-card pack ships with signup. Buy more packs from your dashboard whenever you want, no auto-shipping.

Membership covers the platform, card packs are one-time charges, billed only when you order them.

◍ Membership

  • Basic.

    $10/mo
    • 30 cards per shipment, shipped to your door
    • Core profile (name + one photo)
    • Fun questions for matches to answer before chat opens
    • Unlimited on-demand and bookable video calls inside the chat
    • AI wingmate with date ideas tailored to every match
    • Sex offender background check on every person before you match
    • 5-day post-match chat to swap info or plan a date
    • $30 per pack card pricing

  • Premium.

    $25/mo
    • Everything in Basic
    • Discounted card pricing ($20/pack vs $30)
    • Expanded profile shown to scanners (up to 5 photos, bio, interests)
    • Resurrect one expired chat per month. Buy back a week.
    • Sex offender background check on every person before you match
    • 7-day post-match chat to swap info or plan a date
    • +24h chat extension when you need a little more time

◍ How card packs work

  • First pack ships with signup.

    30 cards charged once at checkout, then shipped to your door.

  • Reorder anytime.

    Out of cards? Buy another 30-card pack from your dashboard. One-time charge, no auto-shipping, no surprises.

  • Pack pricing.

    $30 per pack on Basic. $20 per pack on Premium. 30 cards each.

Build your card →

◍ memo · no.regrets.dating.

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◍ Safety & privacy

Verified-first.
Privacy-first.

  • Verified by ID.

    Real names, real ages. ID + selfie + background check at signup.

  • Two-tries max.

    A person is capped at two submissions to you, ever. Decline once and they're permanently restricted. Rotate your QR anytime.

  • Selfie + video before meeting.

    A selfie at scan confirms the scanner is who you met. An optional in-app video call before you meet again. No phone numbers shared.

  • Nothing by accident.

    You approve every introduction. Quietly. On your own time.

  • No location, no SMS.

    We never collect GPS, device location, or phone numbers. No ad-tech remarketing, no audience building, just IP-anonymized Google Analytics to measure the site.

  • Your data is yours.

    ID photos auto-deleted within 3 days of verification. Never sold, rented, or licensed. Female-founded, membership-funded.

◍ See how we stack up vs typical dating apps↓
GPS / location tracking

No.Regrets.Dating.

Never collected

Typical apps

Collected continuously, often in background

Phone number required

No.Regrets.Dating.

Never. No SMS, ever.

Typical apps

Required at signup; used for marketing & SMS

Third-party ad networks

No.Regrets.Dating.

None. No ad SDKs, no remarketing pixels.

Typical apps

Embedded across the app

Sells or shares data

No.Regrets.Dating.

Never sold, rented, or licensed

Typical apps

Shared with advertisers & data brokers

ID photo retention

No.Regrets.Dating.

Auto-deleted within 3 days of verification

Typical apps

Retained indefinitely on company servers

Identity verification

No.Regrets.Dating.

ID + selfie + background check, required

Typical apps

Optional or absent for most users

Business model

No.Regrets.Dating.

Membership-funded

Typical apps

Engagement + ads + paid boosts

"Typical dating apps" reflects common practices disclosed in major dating-app privacy policies. Not a claim about any specific competitor.

Safety notice: No.Regrets.Dating. is a verification and introduction utility, not a guarantee. Registries and records sources can be incomplete; always use the precautions you'd take meeting any stranger. Full disclosure →

◍ Ambassadors

Become an ambassador.

An ambassador holding a No.Regrets card that reads 'The attractive people aren't on the apps.'

Host events, spread the word in your city, get perks and a personal promo code. Tell us a bit about yourself.

◍ Not a member yet?

Ask us anything.

Questions about how it works, safety, shipping, or anything else, send a note and a real human will get back to you.